Honestly, there was nothing wrong with what Mark Cuban said when he admitted his prejudices. My first reaction when I saw this was YES! A White person who wants to be honest and admit their prejudices with the hopes of working on them.
(By the way, watch that entire video. Cuban, one of my favorite people in sports, speaks frankly and honestly like he does when he criticizes in the NBA. Don't take the soundbyte, swallow this and then process what I say next)
This is what I want more people to do. I've written about it before (see the bottom of this post) and I think that the best way we can understand and live with each other is to work on our prejudices as much as we call out others for theirs along with ignorance and racism.
Yet because people are such children whenever we get honest on discussing race, this became a bigger deal. I'm not speaking on good folks like Bomani Jones and others who pointed out worthy critiques of what he said. I'm talking to others who are unable to distinguish between Cuban and Donald Sterling and think this is a bigger deal than it is.
If the tragedy of TrayvonMartin is a spark, the question is spark to do what?This USAsystem relies on stifling unfocused mass emotion by US
— Chuck D (@MrChuckD) March 25, 2012
It has been nearly one month and yet no charges have been
brought upon George Zimmerman for killing Trayvon Martin, who still remains
free. There have been marches and rallies around the country to support
Martin’s family and call for bringing Zimmerman to be arrested and tried. The
Sanford police department has been called out for mishandling the case and the
police chief has stepped down as a result.
What have I done? Besides share my thoughts here, I wore my
hoodie Wednesday to support the march in New York. I changed my Twitter avatar after seeing
a friend as well as several respected Black journalists (Jim Trotter of SI,
Calvin Watkins of ESPN Dallas and Clarence Hill Jr.) do the same. Now I see so
many do it and it makes me proud.
I almost shed a tear
when I saw that Dwyane Wade and LeBron James convinced their teammates to lend
their support. I never thought I’d see a high profile athlete take a stand on
this and in this era of corporate pitchmen – the most high profile basketball
players took a bold stand. They earned my respect for life.
I’ve shared links from other perspectives and I’ve engaged
in conversations about why this case means so much to me. I’ve thought about
the teenage boys at my church or my girlfriend’s nephew and how they could be
Trayvon. About how America is learning that before we are teenagers, young men
of color are told how to act in certain circumstances to potentially save their
lives and not be a threat.
I’ve also thought about my own prejudices and wondered how
assumptions/biases/fears have governed American society. Whether it be Native
Americans, Japanese Americans after World War 2, Black Americans during and
after slavery and more, we have been taught to fear others or treat them
different. Shameful laws have been passed to enforce this.
“69 billion in the last 20 years spent on national defense
but folks still live in fear.” – Mos Def (Yasiin Bey) "Mathematics
Even look at Rush Limbaugh slandering Sandra Fluke. By
having an unpopular position on birth control, she was labeled a slut. Anything
outside of the main narrative gets labeled and cast as something abnormal or
shameful. It’s the American way – make something different look fearful instead
of embrace openmindedness.
Two Things We can 2 to Honor #Trayvon Martin is 1-Bring George Zimmerman to Justice &; 2-Stop Hating, Undermining &; Killing Each Other
— Davey D (@mrdaveyd) March 23, 2012
As more people sign petitions, share their hoodie pictures
and attend rallies, some people skeptically wonder if people are riding the
bandwagon similar to the KONY 2012 campaign. It’s natural, considering that
social media activism capitalizes on instant reaction that can fade away with
time. There are great flaws in it that the KONY campaign highlighted
brilliantly – absence of facts, no clear plan beyond the initial emotion or
action, too simplistic in its approach.
To that point I say this. While it our responsibility to be
members of the global community, we must never forget our local communities.
Glocalization is more important than globalization. Think global, act local. If
you are upset at what happens in the world, fight injustice around you as well.
The difference with Trayvon Martin is there is a clear goal
for our cause – get George Zimmerman arrested and arraigned for his crimes.
Continue to put public pressure on the trial to ensure a fair process and
hopefully secure a conviction. While social media activism does have its flaws
longterm, when done right it can lead to great change.
More people will also look for ways to paint Trayvon at
fault for what happened. Wearing his hoodie wasn’t a good look at night. He
should’ve known better at 17 (looking at
you, Geraldo Rivera). Show photos of him looking a certain way (which is ironic, given that assumptions got
him killed despite a clean record). Report some witness saying that he was
fought back against Zimmerman, which considering that his life was in danger is
a pretty normal reaction any of us would do if approached by a stranger who
made the first move to attack you.
It's a common courtroom/investigation technique used to distract from what happened to paint doubt in your mind. All of which will quickly be disproven when you hear the 911
call or his friend’s final moments with him. It doesn’t change the fact Zimmerman
was the aggressor and approached an unarmed young person that he outweighed. Or
the fact Zimmerman has a track record for being overzealous.
Ultimately this is about realizing and fighting prejudices.
It’s deeper than racism, a pattern of believing one ethnic group is inferior to
another. To a man, most reasonable people will admit this is wrong but what
about prejudices. What about assuming things about someone based on how they
look and letting that lead to judgments and actions?
We live in a world where we do this on a daily basis and the
media consciously or unconsciously shapes them. Communication theorist George
Gerbner proved with years of research that the amount of media we consume
usually leads to how we see the world. He told Congress that fearful people are
“more dependent, more easily
manipulated and controlled, more susceptible to deceptively simple, strong,
tough measures and hard-line postures.”
That was in 1981. He prophetically added that “they may
accept and even welcome repression if it promises to relieve their insecurities.”
(Hello, Patriot Act)
Like Tim Wise and Davey D said, America has created a climate of fear.
You are living in a culture that tells you to fear somebody. Look at your news
– the lead stories are usually crime or tragedies. Who are the villains and who
are the heroes in shows? What’s your instant reaction when you see somebody
different than you? And too often, the victims of this fear are people who look like me.
My godbrother was randomly stopped in my current neighborhood when he came to visit me, for no reason. Somebody called the police on me when I was in HS because I ran back to my house to catch a baseball game and a neighbor didn't recognize me.
Here’s what I say people can do. Remain aware of this case.
Sign a petition. Show your support how you see fit. Talk about it but also
realize it’s not an isolated incident. It’s something that people of color face
every day and you – yes, you the majority – are responsible for it changing.
Look at yourselves and your friends. Look at what you assume
about people. Look at how far you’ll go about your assumptions. Nobody thinks
they’ll kill or hurt somebody but fear has a way of surprising you with its
pull.
Until we all check our assumptions, fears, society will never grow from this moment. It's more than an avatar, its a renewing of your mind
— Evan Barnes (@evan_b) March 24, 2012
We have to unlearn our prejudices and constantly renew our
minds. I’m not saying be naïve but I am saying watch your comments. Be quicker
to listen and see before thinking something about someone. Fear is the true
opposite of love, not hate, and if we learn to eliminate our biases and put
ourselves and friends in check when we step out of line.
I’ve learned to not assume people are thugs by a mugshot, by
how they dress or act. Maybe I’d rather be proven wrong but having been in the
media and seen how people assume too much, I’d rather be a voice of caution
when there’s a lot more quickness to judge – too often by people who don’t look
like the people being judged.
To properly honor Trayvon Martin, we have to live
remembering that he died from a bullet AND a thought. It’s more than just
remembering his death by changing an avatar. It’s living with his ghost
reminding us to change our perceptions and not let fear have such a power on
us. When the music stops and the media and most folks move on, this is what you must do to remember what happened and provoke change.
Speaking of ghosts, I’ll let one of my inspirations, James
Baldwin, get the final word, addressing what we have created by our fears.
